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PostPosted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 10:14 am    Post subject: School apologises for Santa myth class Reply with quote

School says sorry after revealing the truth about Father Christmas
Steven Morris
Wednesday December 20, 2006
The Guardian


The moment when a child realises Father Christmas does not exist can be a difficult one, especially if it happens a few days before the bearded one is due down the chimney. But a junior school was forced to apologise yesterday after one of its teachers did the delicate job usually left to parents or older siblings when she taught a lesson revealing that Santa was a myth and letters addressed to him were actually dealt with by the Royal Mail.

To make matters worse, the youngsters, aged nine and 10, were asked to put themselves in the place of Royal Mail staff and make up replies to children explaining why their requests for certain presents had been rejected. One parent said: "My wife and I make a special effort to keep the belief in Santa in our daughter's mind as we believe it adds to the magic of Christmas for her and her four-year-old brother. What gives the school the right to decide when children should know the truth about such a harmless matter when knowing the truth does take away that little bit of magic? She'll probably figure it out soon enough anyway. But we might have had one last Christmas without her knowing if it hadn't been for the school." However, another mother, Sally Jones, 32, who has three children at the school, said she was not upset by the blunder.

"I don't think it will come as a shock to many children of that age. I think some parents fob off their children while others tell them the truth. I don't think any harm has been done," she said. "The only advantage of Santa as a parent is that you have got someone to blame if children don't get what they want."

The Hamilton Trust, which produced the worksheet used during the lesson at Ladysmith junior school in Exeter, claimed that by the age of 10 children tended to know that Santa did not exist. But headteacher Jackie Jackson said: "The choice of this worksheet was a genuine mistake by a teacher which we are sad about. As a school we delight in the magic of childhood and believe that Christmas is a special time. This worksheet will never be used in the school again."

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Bloody hell - they're 9 and 10 years old, by that age they're usually learning sex-education but learning Santa is a myth is hard to take?!
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PostPosted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 7:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

True and yet I still think it's the parents place to let them know this. Anyone who's worked with kids will tell you that there's a huge difference in maturity levels. For that matter, I think sex ed is also something that should be a parental matter.... and I know that some won't agree with me on that. I firmly believe that every child is ready to receive that information in their own time, to be determined by their parent. I suppose it might fill a need for those who's parents won't do that kind of thing --- so I guess there's the argument.

Anyway, I'm sure in the end these kids won't be too scarred by finding out that Santa's a myth!
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 7:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

eefanincan wrote:
True and yet I still think it's the parents place to let them know this. Anyone who's worked with kids will tell you that there's a huge difference in maturity levels. For that matter, I think sex ed is also something that should be a parental matter.... and I know that some won't agree with me on that. I firmly believe that every child is ready to receive that information in their own time, to be determined by their parent. I suppose it might fill a need for those who's parents won't do that kind of thing --- so I guess there's the argument.

Anyway, I'm sure in the end these kids won't be too scarred by finding out that Santa's a myth!


Spot on eefan! thumbs And I'm with you on the sex ed too. I have to teach sexual education every year and I keep thinking "Why is this my responsibility?" and then I can't answer certain questions because I've been told that "It's the parents job to answer those"

I don't remember when I stopped believing in Santa but I am sure these kids will remember!
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 11:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Skylace wrote:
eefanincan wrote:
True and yet I still think it's the parents place to let them know this. Anyone who's worked with kids will tell you that there's a huge difference in maturity levels. For that matter, I think sex ed is also something that should be a parental matter.... and I know that some won't agree with me on that. I firmly believe that every child is ready to receive that information in their own time, to be determined by their parent. I suppose it might fill a need for those who's parents won't do that kind of thing --- so I guess there's the argument.

Anyway, I'm sure in the end these kids won't be too scarred by finding out that Santa's a myth!


Spot on eefan! thumbs And I'm with you on the sex ed too. I have to teach sexual education every year and I keep thinking "Why is this my responsibility?" and then I can't answer certain questions because I've been told that "It's the parents job to answer those"

I don't remember when I stopped believing in Santa but I am sure these kids will remember!


My big concern with the sex ed thing is that a lot of teachers don't get it right. I remember a teacher in high school talking about the birth control pill and such and I now know how much information she got wrong.... sure I'm a nurse now, and know better, but I now know she was giving more of her opinion and not much factual information. I'm sure it makes your job much more difficult though, when you can't be entirely open or honest, having to worry about what you can say and what should be left to the parents.

As for the Santa bit, I remember distinctly that I was six, and was questioning my dad on how can he get down the chimney when we had no fireplace, how could get around the world so quickly, etc. etc. So he sat me down and told me he wasn't real.... then added in that neither was the Easter Bunny or the Tooth Fairy! Crying I'd mostly had it figured out anyway, but it would have been nice to "pretend" for a little while longer Laughing Funny though, there is always a gift from "Santa" for me at my parents house!
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 1:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

eefanincan wrote:
Skylace wrote:
eefanincan wrote:
True and yet I still think it's the parents place to let them know this. Anyone who's worked with kids will tell you that there's a huge difference in maturity levels. For that matter, I think sex ed is also something that should be a parental matter.... and I know that some won't agree with me on that. I firmly believe that every child is ready to receive that information in their own time, to be determined by their parent. I suppose it might fill a need for those who's parents won't do that kind of thing --- so I guess there's the argument.

Anyway, I'm sure in the end these kids won't be too scarred by finding out that Santa's a myth!


Spot on eefan! thumbs And I'm with you on the sex ed too. I have to teach sexual education every year and I keep thinking "Why is this my responsibility?" and then I can't answer certain questions because I've been told that "It's the parents job to answer those"

I don't remember when I stopped believing in Santa but I am sure these kids will remember!


My big concern with the sex ed thing is that a lot of teachers don't get it right. I remember a teacher in high school talking about the birth control pill and such and I now know how much information she got wrong.... sure I'm a nurse now, and know better, but I now know she was giving more of her opinion and not much factual information. I'm sure it makes your job much more difficult though, when you can't be entirely open or honest, having to worry about what you can say and what should be left to the parents.

As for the Santa bit, I remember distinctly that I was six, and was questioning my dad on how can he get down the chimney when we had no fireplace, how could get around the world so quickly, etc. etc. So he sat me down and told me he wasn't real.... then added in that neither was the Easter Bunny or the Tooth Fairy! Crying I'd mostly had it figured out anyway, but it would have been nice to "pretend" for a little while longer Laughing Funny though, there is always a gift from "Santa" for me at my parents house!

Awww...that's sweet that there's still the gift.
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